This is a basic synopsis of the two most common comments made in emails that are sent to me:
"Wow! I can't believe how much you get done! How do you do it all?!"
~ and ~
"I can't believe you haven't gotten back to me/replied/returned my call/taken care of this bill/issue/etc. - why are you ingnoring me?"
I often think I'll just forward the one email to the other, and they'll each have an answer. I do accomplish a lot in the day. Why? Because I am equal parts passionate, and frenetic (read, nuts). There is also an amazing amount that falls through the cracks, slips through my grasp, and gets lost in the shuffle. In my mind, my accomplishments are outweighed by what I have not gotten done. I live with an awful lot of guilt over replies not sent, details not shored up, and outstanding issues not resolved. That which I do accomplish, probably grows and expands in proportion to my guilt - but it does not resolve it.
My dear friend Kat sent me a link to a website called FlyLady.com. It's about housekeeping, and grooming and all those things our significant others want us to do - you know - regularly. I have mentioned this before - my husband is a neatnic minimalist, and somehow he ended up with a sloppy pack rack artist for a wife. This issue sounds cutesy "opposites attract" when I put it in writing, but in real life it is the basis for marital rift and threats of total dissolution. It's not pretty - and I don't just mean my messy house.
So, add the need to houseclean to my to-do list (If you are keeping track, you will see why I often contemplate changing the name of this blog to: The House that Guilt Built.) But, I digress.
This FlyLady.com website really looks intriguing to me. It breaks the housekeeping process down into small steps that you repeat every day until they become habits. The first day, you shine your sink. Now see, I can do that. The problem is that on the the second day, you are supposed to get dressed when you wake up, all the way down to your shoes. Lace up shoes even. Here is where they have lost me. I was with them on day one. Day two,I could have handled a nice easy toilet scrub or something like that - but change out of my pajamas? You have got to be kidding me. What is this? Military boot camp? Hmmm. I am not so sure.
So, does this mean I get to stop shining the sink too?
Ah well. Moving on.
SPEAKING OF DISARRAY!
Ok, so the third most common email comment I recieve is this one:
"Where on the ZNE website can I find this/that/the other?"
and
"I tried to find that on ZNE, but got lost looking around."
Now, this is a tough one for me, because the fact of the matter is - ZNE is a huge site - actually housed on two websites (!) with multiple galleries, activities, discussion boards, etc. The activity in our group is part of what makes it so vibrant and fun! And, well, confusing to some and overwhelming to others...
So, in a drastic attempt to avoid cleaning my physical house (!) - I have spent the past several days cleaning up the Land of ZNE. Voila! All of our programs and activities with links- are now consolidated on one page:

How cool is THAT!?
: )
Alrighty then, that's one thing off my to-do list.
And what have YOU gotten done today? Do tell!
xo - Chel
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